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Overcoming 7 Major Obstacles To Traveling The World – #5 You Have Kids Or Will Soon

A number of you are planning to travel the world one day, which won’t happen unless you can overcome these 7 obstacles. Here are Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4 of this series.

Overcoming the obstacles to traveling the world begin with shedding your past, dealing with the present, and then preparing for the future. Hopefully by now you see yourself traveling the world in this future. Leaving your day job, saving up enough money, and planning out a trip can be quite liberating and open up your mind to new possibilities as well as give you a lot of time to worry about may come – like children.

kid looking up

This new future you see yourself in will be unfamiliar and unpredictable. Whether or not you have young children, want them, or don’t – the fear that you may be jeopardizing your future can set in. Children often represent what’s to come but share a lot in common with the traveler psyche that can ultimately inspire your desire to travel on new levels.

There Is No Blueprint

There is no magic time to travel the world or deadline set in cosmic stone that you are racing against. The future is unpredictable regardless if you never travel the world or not. Thoughts of future children or “waiting” until your young kids grow up is a way to externalize your fear. All travelers are not 20-somethings backpacking on their own.

There are plenty of family travel blogs out that will prove this point – below are just a few. (Feel free to add to this list in the comments below.)

There are also plenty of helpful moms and dads out there to help answer your questions, like tips for a first time flight with an infant.

Children Are Natural Travelers

Almost everything is an adventure for a child. Their sense of wonder and curiosity motivate them to explore the world around them – much like adults who want to travel around the globe.

When we think of traveling with children we often see images of babies crying on airplanes and toddlers pouting. It’s true that children get bored easily during the actual act of traveling, but so do we; except that we can occupy ourselves with iPods, movies, books, alcohol, etc. to keep occupied. Put that image aside and realize that traveling the world doesn’t mean constant motion.

Having children with you doesn’t make traveling impossible, it just presents a few additional challenges at times. There is far more time for everything else.

Is It Them Or You?

young photographerWe worry about children because we ascribe adult characteristics and our own fears on them (or our future visions of children to come). Adults often think children will have a hard time coping with change, learning new languages, and making friends without the benefit of staying in the same place for years.

In general children are much more adaptable than adults and have an easier time acquiring multiple languages (in fact one of the best ways to learn a new language is to think like a child). Also, making friends will be easier for both you and any kids than you think.

New Perspectives

Children can add an entirely new perspective to anywhere in the world you visit. One of the most creative ways I’ve seen this demonstrated is when Jen from My Folie a Deux handed her camera to her daughter to show us how we see Marrakesh. Traveling with children can open your eyes to many things you may not have noticed before or add an extra dimension to your travels somewhere along the way.

Keep It Real

Worrying about intangible things, like the kids you will have, or saying you can’t do something because of the kids you do have can rehash all of the fears you have already over come – like leaving your routines, money, and uncertainty. Don’t turn a dream into a nightmare. Break down your life (if you have kids already) or the anxieties you have about the future so you can tackle them like any other issue you have faced.

Ask yourself, what do you want to tell your children you accomplished and regretted in life and what are the reasons you want to travel the world?

If the answers to those questions are good enough for you, why not your children?

Since I don’t have children myself I’ll let all of the traveling parents speak for themselves and invite you to share your experiences.

You’re now getting close – there are two final obstacles to overcome. Next week you’ll be dealing with the present, putting some things in the past, and jumping into the future.

[photos by: oenvoyage, muha…]

My Interview with Ben Kazez About The Free iPhone App HotelPal

hotelpal on the iphoneBen Kazez is one of the developers of the FlightTrack iPhone application and recently developed HotelPal – a free application for the iPhone and iPod Touch. Ben was happy to answer a few questions about the application, another free and useful iPhone app for travelers.

In a Tweet of 140 characters or less, describe what HotelPal is.

Browse & search hotels worldwide with full-screen photos, live availability, rates and more. Then reserve the perfect room right in the app!

What advantage does HotelPal have over booking online before you get to your destination?

Our goal was to make it easier to book hotels on an iPhone than it is on a computer. Online travel sites typically try to sell you flights and rental cars along the way, display unhelpful extraneous info, and sort hotels in mysterious “Our Picks” orderings that actually reflect the amount of commission that the travel agency makes, not the value to the traveler. With HotelPal, we’ve trimmed it all down to provide just what you need. You can sort hotels by price or distance, compare locations on a map, and view important details from photos to amenities to live rates and availability.

Even better, HotelPal makes it possible to research travel plans from anywhere, with anyone — on a bus, while waiting in line, or elsewhere. It opens up all sorts of possibilities for travel planning.

Is HotelPal’s search limited to a certain set of hotels?

HotelPal includes over 100,000 hotels, inns, resorts, and B&Bs worldwide. You’ll be surprised just how many smaller, independent hotels are included. It’s not everything, but it’s among the most complete hotel databases available anywhere.

hotelpal logoHow does booking a hotel with HotelPal work?

To book, simply pick a room, type your billing info, and tap Book Now! Typing booking info on an iPhone keyboard isn’t fun, so we’ve added a unique feature called Secure AutoFill — choose a password and HotelPal saves your booking info for the future with secure encryption. It’s like keeping a credit card in your wallet, only more secure. After you’ve booked, it’s a simple tap to get directions from your current location to the hotel.

What about people who don’t have iPhones, anyway they can use or try out HotelPal?

Your best bet is probably to befriend an iPhone or iPod touch user. 🙂 HotelPal does require an iPhone or iPod touch right now.

Anything else we should know about HotelPal?

It’s a free download, so give it a shot next time you traveling! We think you’ll love the full-screen photos — it’s amazing how much detail you can get about many hotels without having to scope out the places on foot.

What other projects are you working on next?

We’re always working on updates to FlightTrack, FlightTrack Pro, and HotelPal, as well as other helpful travel apps. Stay tuned and follow us on Twitter @Mobiata for the fastest updates!

Thanks for letting us know more about HotelPal – the app is free for both the iPhone and iPod Touch. If you have any more questions feel free to ask Ben in the comments below or add your own thoughts on HotelPal after giving it a shot.

4 Days Left To Enter The Cheesiest Travel Photo Contest

anime touristThe deadline to send your funny, touristy, cheesy photos of yourself is this Friday so send me your picture if you haven’t already. To recap, all you need to do to enter The Cheesiest Travel Photo Contest is email me your cheesy photo (your face has to be in it) to anil(@)foxnomad.com before the end of this Friday, August 14th.

I’ll begin posting the entries next week from August 17th-19th and post my favorite 7 on Monday, August 24th. All 7 of the selected pictures will win a prize. Which prize you win will be determined by a reader poll, but you will win something.

The prizes again: #1: $150 via Paypal, #2 The travel book or DVD of your choice (up to $30), #3,4,5 Cabin Cuddlers, #6 any one of the books I’ve reviewed, and #7 a $25 Travelocity Hotel Gift Card.

Additionally all email subscribers (newsletter subscribers too), Twitter followers, and Facebook fans are automatically entered to win a 4 pack of ultimate sporks (which come in very handy when traveling). The winner for this prize will be selected randomly.

You don’t have to be a great photographer or professional so don’t be shy. I’ve gotten some hilarious cheesy pictures and can’t wait to share them with you – join in the fun too!

[photo by: KayVee.INC]

7 Great Trail Runs In Europe

runners in a marathonThis is a guest post by Renato, a freelance writer and a (slow) long distance runner. Renato is the author of www.RunAbroad.com. Running a half marathon in every European country and mastering the art of vagabonding are his short term goals. He splits his time between UK and Italy.

Why Europe? The Pyrenees, the Alps and the British islands are a paradise for trail running: grab a cheap ticket this summer and join the European circuit, choosing one of the following 7 great trails. You don’t need to be competitive to enjoy a great race on the mountains.

1. Race the Train, UK

Race the Train (August 15) is a competition between runners on a 14 mile trail course and steam train. A superbly themed race to challenge the Talyllyn Railway, a historic narrow-gauge railway, one of the great trains of Wales. A must do at least once for who likes to jog in the countryside and all multi-terrain runners.

2. Sierre-Zinal, Switzerland

trail napoleonAlso known as the Race of Five 4000m Peaks, the Sierre-Zinal is an unusual 31 km with 2200m ascent and 800m descent in the French-speaking region of Switzerland. The race starts from Sierre (585 m) and then quickly (or not so quickly) the route along forest and stony paths will take you on trails to some of the best mountains in Switzerland. The start date is August 9.

3. Reschenseelauf, Italy

A flat race in the mountains on August 1st. Reschenseelauf is a 15.3 kilometers race at 1500 meters above sea level in Alto Adige. In Italy, but just a mile from the Austrian border, Lake Resia is the largest lake in South Tyrol and a great location for a summer break in the Alps.

4. Beachy Head Marathon, UK

Formerly known as the Seven Sisters Marathon, Beachy Head is a multi-terrain marathon (almost no road-running). The cross-country challenge covers most of the hills around Eastbourne, a Victorian seaside resort, including Beachy Head, at 162m, the highest chalk sea cliff in the country. The start date is October 24.

grass trail5. Swiss Alpine Marathon Davos, Switzerland

The Swiss Alpine Marathon in Davos is the ideal race for a summer break in Switzerland and as a first time long distance trail race. The C42, also called cultural marathon, is an easy marathon by mountain standards, follows the Bernina railway line, a Unesco World Heritage site, and the time limit is nine hours.

6. Trail Napoléon, Corsica, France

Corsica Run Xtrem organizes the Trail Napoléon, a 23km trail run with a positive ascent of more than 950m. This is the best trail in the island of Corsica, from the cité Impériale in Ajaccio to Parata, with the incredible view over the Iles Sanguinaires and an unspoiled trail in the marquis. Get ready for the last weekend of May 2010.

7. Zermatt Marathon, Switzerland

Zermatt in Switzerland is surrounded by a range of amazing mountains, it is famous worldwide for the Matterhorn (Mount Cervin) and it possibly offers the best mountain marathon in Europe: from Sunnega to Riffelalp, the views are spectacular and a free pint of beer is waiting for you at the end of the challenge in Gornergrat. August 9 is the big day on the Alps.

And when you cross the finish line you can eat some Apfelküchlein (apple cookies) in Davos, enjoy fish and chips in Eastbourne or drink a cold Pietra beer in Ajaccio. You deserved them.

How I Got Robbed In Guatemala and Other Hard-To-Believe Escapades: Part 1

This is the first part of a true story written by Marina Villatoro who writes the travel blog Travel Experta about everything you need to know about Central America. Every Friday over the next two months I’ll be posting another chapter of this adventure. Here is Part 1. Catch up with Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7, Part 8, Part 9, Part 10, and Part 11 in case you missed them.

guatemalan bus

Did you ever participate in something so absurd, unless it really happened, you wouldn’t believe it?  Well… Believe this!  There are no additives or Hollywood embellishments, just the ridiculous truth.

It all began fifteen minutes after I got off the bus in the heart of Panajachel — the metropolis of Lago de Atitlan in Guatemala.  It took me over three hours on a bumpy, crater filled road, from Guatemala City, to arrive to the overly populated town, located on the lake shore amidst ancient volcanoes dotted with Indian villages.  For unbeknown reasons, it was transformed into a trendy gringo hang-out replete with chic restaurants, overpriced boutiques, hordes of tourist agencies and local markets.

Focusing my sights on a low-budget hotel, I walked through the crowded, ill-assorted streets.  Tired and cranky, I wondered why on earth hipster-travelers thought it was a good idea to buy every single Indian custom for sale and than wear them all at once. Was it to mock, to blend or simply lack of fashion sense? I shrugged it off and averted my gaze to the best deal in town and walked straight into an old acquaintance (as old as my trip, which was about two months).

Henrik The Norwegian

blurry people on a sidewalkHenrik was a Norwegian I met at a popular hostel in Antigua, on his umpteenth trip through Guatemala. Antigua was a colonial city and another tourist Mecca of Guatemala best known for its Spanish schools, discos, bars and higher-end luxuries, i.e. hot showers. But for our purposes Antigua is irrelevant.  What’s relevant was our re-connection.

“What are you doing here?” I asked surprised, “I thought you were going to stay in Antigua, get a job and find an apartment?”

“Nah… I changed my mind.  Everyone left. I got bored and came here.” He leaned in for the standard peck-peck on both cheeks—very European; even though he was as European as any Guatemalan, living in the states practically all his life.

“A few days ago I bumped into some friends, and they want me to housesit for them.  You up for it? They’re over in San Marcos.  I’m headin’ there tomorrow… Whatta ya say?”  He buddy-punched my shoulder, smiled widely and took a deep drag of his unfiltered cigarette.

“Sure.  I guess so. Will they mind?”

“Nope. It’s really peaceful, and they have two rooms, so you can chill as long as you want. And dude it’s FREE!”

What else did I have to do? I agreed.

“Do you know of anywhere I can stay tonight?” I asked, “Cheap!”

“Absolutamente.  I’ll take you to my place. It’s the cheapest in town with a bathroom and restaurant.”

What else can you ask for?

Janka the Dutch Girl

blue lakeOn our way we passed an internet café and bumped into Janka as she exited, also an ex-patron of the same Antigua hotel.

“I’m flying back to Holland in two weeks and wanted to see Lago de Atitlan,” she informed us after we exchanged pleasantries.  “I’ve been here since yesterday.  There really isn’t much to do…  What are you guys up to?”

Henrik, the eager host, immediately invited her to San Marcos.  She gladly agreed. Did he think that we’re going to his house?

Please don’t think this was serendipitous. Quite the contrary, if I paid more attention to my mother’s proverbial warnings: “It’s better to be alone than in bad company,” I would’ve been much better off.  But when traveling alone the desire to connect with other travelers overrode lonesome rationale.  Janka was sweet, but we’ve spoken once before our reunion.  Henrik, on the other hand, was a character I would avoid back home.  His whole life revolved around getting stoned and telling everyone he’s a musician.  He was as much of a musician as my dog. The only difference: my four-legged friend could put two agonizing notes together… sometimes. Henrik couldn’t even locate his instrument, nonetheless attempt note coordination.  Hastily, I was committed. Since Janka was going home soon she splurged on a hotel.  I’ve just begun and I was on a tight budget; hence Henrik’s recommendation for a hotel.

Backpackers, have many illusions of ‘the ideal experience’.  Always on the hunt for the best bargain, we will go to great lengths of sacrifice for a good story.  If I knew of my fate to come, I would have taken a room at a five-star resort with private maids, silver sheets, and ass-wipers.  Instead, I found myself in a 6 x 6 room, with a decrepit wooden beam referred to as “the bed”, a pet cockroach to keep me company, a stinky bathroom and the ventilation system for the restaurant, as my neighbor. On occasion I make a lousy backpacker; I cursed myself up and down for having to prove myself and paid one dollar for this price-less experience.

My fitful sleep put me in a grand mood, and I was ready for a change.  To get to any of the numerous villages tucked neatly between volcanoes and little hills, we needed to take a boat.  The choppy ride took over an hour.  Along with twenty others we hopped off the boat onto an isolated dock and I buckled underneath my sea legs. Wobbling along the narrow-wooden path shaded by palms and eucalyptus trees, I toyed with the idea of getting married (someday), buying waterfront property and raising kids in this peaceful far-away, little village…

Little did I know!

[photo (middle) by: conceptDawg]


Marina has been living in Central America for over 7 years and her site Travel Experta is all about traveling in Central America. Marina loves to help people plan the perfect vacation to this amazing part of the world! Join the fun on her Facebook fan page and follow her on Twitter at @MarinaVillatoro.

Overcoming 7 Major Obstacles To Traveling The World – #4 You’ll Miss Your Family and Friends

sad face on plateA number of you are planning to travel the world one day, which won’t happen unless you can overcome these 7 obstacles. Here are Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 of this series.

Dealing with the practical issues of how to travel the world are usually at the forefront of obstacles we focus on, but can be much easier to overcome than intangible emotional dilemmas. Once you’ve decided to leave your job, have started selling and saving, and mapped out where you want to go, the reality that you won’t be where you are right now will hit.

Fortunately technology is on your side and you’ll be more social than you think once you set off on your trip. Don’t try to fight it, you will miss people but accepting that makes it easier to overcome this obstacle to traveling the world.

Don’t Deny It

You won’t worry too much about not having a day job or the book shelf you sold but rather all of the people who won’t be coming with you. Whether your family is nearby or not there will be friends, coworkers, and people that it will be hard to say goodbye too. To overcome this obstacle the best thing you can do is accept this. Fighting it will increase the stress you face leading up to your trip making it an obstacle again.

  • blindfolded womanRemember that others around you will be feeling the same way and will let you know. Don’t get confrontational or blow off your friends and family when they tell you that you’re going to be missed. Again, denying or fighting it only makes it an even bigger obstacle to overcome. Besides, it’s much easier (and nicer) to say “I’ll miss you too.”

Embrace Technology

I consider a laptop to be an essential travel item. You should strongly consider bringing one with you as you travel the world since it gives you so many ways to see, hear, and stay in touch with everyone – not to mention it makes it easy for everyone else to get a hold of you too. Load up your laptop with these essential software for digital nomads and learn how to bum a wi-fi signal from the road.

You Will Be More Social

two brown butterfliesExtroverted or introverted you will be more social after you start traveling. Traveling solo forces you out of your shell and exploring the world with a partner or some friends makes you much more approachable (and people will approach you!) Traveling by nature is a social activity and you’ll be surrounded by people most times you visit anywhere and certainly will bump other travelers that are doing just what you are.

It’s hard to alleviate the anxiety of missing people by telling yourself “well I’ll meet other people” before you actually do – so immerse yourself with some perpetual nomads you should read.

Some Other Ways To Keep In Touch

  • Encourage your friends and family members to come and visit you on stops along your trip. It will be fun to see each other again and they’ll get to taste a part of your journey. They might be inspired to travel around the world too!
  • There are plenty of travel bloggers around the world (you may be following some) and they/we’re generally a friendly bunch. See if any are along your route and would like to meet up for coffee or a meal.
  • Of course Facebook and Twitter. (You can find me on both Facebook and Twitter.)

Let The Obstacle Overcome Itself

Missing your family and friends and worrying about it are part of the process – and overcomes itself – if you let it. The tools to stay in touch are at your fingertips and there’s no rule of the universe that says once you leave to travel you’ll never see anyone you knew ever again.

Of course you can always go back to visit, or in many cases, you will be back to visit. The less you push back the smaller this obstacle becomes until there isn’t too much to overcome. What gets tricky is not the people who are here today but the little ones who might be on the way or have just arrived. We’ll overcome that obstacle next Thursday in Part 5.

[photos by: helgasms!, lunae, positivelypurple]

About Anil Polat

foxnomad aboutHi, I'm Anil. foXnoMad is where I combine travel and tech to help you travel smarter. I'm on a journey to every country in the world and you're invited to join the adventure! Read More

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